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What does a collar really mean to you?

To the people associated with our D/s Community a collar exhibits profound feelings of respect, intent, and more.
Unlike a ring on the finger which most often says ( I am Married, don't ask) a collar may be more intense than any ring. Collars come in many shapes, styles and of course sizes. Her collar may be a simple gold or silver chain, or may be a profound as a steel, platinum or solid gold accent bearing the name of her owner. Collars can and many times are the very jewelry associated with submission and ownership. To be "COLLARED" in a ceremony in front of your D/s friends, or family is a profoundly unique and special social occasion. Next to allowing yourself to be tattooed or branded, few signs of absolute submission can be paramount to these.

Women who accept the great responsibilities of becoming the wearers of such a permanent mark, are to be socially, emotionally and physically raised to a higher degree of professionalism and acceptance that the norm. Collaering should never be taken lightly, as it cannot be divorced in the social manner. Only the owner has the ability to allow the collared person to remove her collar and to set her free , if and only if she desires to move away from her obligation. D/s people take a collar much more serious than any marital ring. Some females love the big rock on their hands - but what does that really represent - a lifeless value? Wearing another's mark of slavery is profoundly much more emotionally deeper than the value of a stone. Monetary values mean little to most practitioners of D/s, while true ownership mean life and happiness, accepted and desired. DO NOT BREAK THE BOND!
1 year ago. December 11, 2023 at 8:16 PM

Well, all - it's the Holiday Season again, and for those of you who do not have a partner to play with, or buy for, I know the feeling.   This is the time of the year when many of us get the Blues as we are surrounded by couples sharing their time together, shopping for gifts, or going on holiday!

It is also the time some of us single people wind up being alone, drinking alone, and feeling alone, especially the people in my age group 50-80.  Many of us no longer have our parents to visit, and often feel apprehensive about visiting (dropping -In) on our siblings.  Blessed are those who have grandchildren to enjoy, but it is not the same as having a partner, lover, slave, or submissive to have fun with!  Even if you are lucky to have met a boy toy, girl toy, or friendly partner, taking them to visit your family can be difficult, stressful, or costly for all.  Did I mention - that many of us seniors can get the blues during this time?  Indeed I have. 

Would those of you afflicted by the Holiday Blues raise their right hand, or at least glass and toast all the people we love, have loved, or lost due to medical issues, accidents,  crime, or worse Suicide?  As I sit in my living room, armchair, by the fireplace and watch the flames dance over the logs, I can't help but to ponder about all the people much like me, sitting alone this holiday.   We continue to live on - not knowing when the reaper come to take us home to our lord, and pray that the people we love, or will love find themselves safe, happy, and full of life!   January First will begin another year, continue the quest for somebody to share life blessings with, perhaps for me, Santa will leave a woman bound tight in a corset, harness, and latex suit under my Christmas Tree this year!   If it was not to be, then at least leave me a bottle of good wine to drink as I watch the flames burning down the logs to embers!

 

Merry Christmas to you all!

 

Random Male​(dom male)Verified Account - Keep on keepin' on.
1 year ago
Beautiful eyes​(sub female)​{Taken} - Merry Christmas, keep on going xx
1 year ago

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