Well, me being new to this lifestyle, I have learned so much already.
I have met some amazing people on my journey in discovering this path I've chosen to follow. Some of them taught me valuable lessons.
I have always been very open minded about most things in life. Absorbing all information received like a sponge - eager in learning and processing information received.
Through this first two months being active here, I have been offered so many things - advice, being guided, some offering just good honest advice and others trying to take advantage of the idea that I am new. Yes, it's left me with a million questions. Why, why and why?
I would love to thank those amazing people offering truthfull and sincere advice. Offering to always be available should I have any question whatsoever.
Then, there's the question that I just cannot get out of my mind. Why would some people take time in getting to know someone, with the intend to mislead you with everything they do or say?
I do believe many submissives here have the same questions as I have. Maybe some are just scared to put it out there, scared that people would think less of them.
Well, I will ask just that question. Why would a so called "Dom" claim you to be his, making certain promises and raising expectations, knowing he cannot keep it?
Why do these "Doms" do that? Honestly. They are not true "Doms". That is my honest answer. A true "Dom" will never build a sibmissive up in believing that he would always be there for her, and not living up to his promise. A true "Dom" will never let a submissive down by just leaving her in the dark.
These so called "Doms" need to realise that this is not a game being played. If it is a game to you, go find yourself a toy somewhere else. This lifestyle is true and real. And if you cannot be honest from the word go, you honestly do not belong here.
I believe that each real "Dom" is a gentleman who believes in Honesty, Trust and Respect. Something that the fake ones can learn from.
So please, next time you decide to make contact with a true Submissive, show that you're a man and man-up to what you say.
I do believe that what I've said here will be supported by so many and that somewhere these fake temporary Funtime seekers need to be put in their place.
This what we have here is a serious choice and lifestyle.
As for all the true Doms here, thank you for being real. Thank you for all your understanding. And I do believe you feel the same as I do. These fake people dont deserve a spot here as they are breaking all the rules set out in being part of this community. After all, Honesty, Trust and Respect is what we all seek at the end of the day.
I just felt like sharing this, sitting here at home, thinking about my journey up till now.
I have embraced the lifestyle completely and I will be damned should one of these fake, narrow minded people influence my decission because of their false pretences.
I do believe I will have some more news and updates on my journey as experienced by myself.
Always happy to meet new and interesting, honest people.
ElasticHeart
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