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Grief

Grief is a stranger.
It will never be a friend.
It does not care what you want to do today, tomorrow or any other day.
It will wreak any plans that you make.
It will be a constant reminder of why you shouldn’t be happy or even content.
It will push even your best friend away.
It will make you dodge phone calls from your family.
It will ruin a day that has been full of adventure and good times.
The only good thing about grief is at one point you have the power to control it.
You have the power to say “Not Today”
You have the power to take unpleasant memories and say I do not live there anymore.
When you reach that point Grief has no control.
9 months ago. Monday, May 5, 2025 at 10:52 AM

Some of my thoughts and opinions. All based on conversations

I’ve had in the last couple of weeks with like-minded people.

 

In the BDSM lifestyle there are many rules. Some written, some unwritten. 

One unwritten rule is protect yourself at all times. Never let your guard down. 
Some follow this to a T. Some are so lackadaisical it makes me cringe. 
I believe you follow this rule in comparison to how much you have been hurt. 

I have been on both ends of the spectrum. It’s not fun. You miss so many

opportunities that could make you happy.

My new rule is…….


Follow your gut feeling. A combination of your heart and your head. 

Do not follow your heart alone. It is deceitful, it will lead you astray.

Do not follow your head alone. It is to Analytical, you will suffer

paralysis by analysis and miss many opportunities.

 

Always stay true to yourself.



 

 

 

 

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