I choose who I'm submissive to. I choose who gets that vulnerable, feminine, sweet, passionate, and so eager to please side of me. I choose who gets to see inside my heart, soul and innermost thoughts. And I choose whom I want to give up control to. Noone can demand these things. Although every day in my mail, someone actually does.
For me there has to be trust. Maybe because I'm fragile and super glued back together, or maybe I'm just complicated. Theres no instruction booklet for this or a set amount of time. It either happens or it doesn't. You earn my trust by simply being you. You can't manipulate me or berate me or convince me that I have to prove it. Because I don't.
Being a Dominant doesn't automatically qualify you for a sub. And that you roll up and take ownership of her like a new car. Just like a Dom doesn't accept every sub that has a conversation with him. Be choosy. Be patient. Find that special spark that gives your soul shivers and leaves a smile on your face.
If I'm more dominant than you.... its not going to happen. Ever. No offense meant to you. I am positive there are many types of Dominants and submissives. And that's alright. Not everyone is going to be a good fit.
"You will naturally be submissive to a man that you trust to lead, even if you're an alpha female."
《 《 《 Facts.
