Where bdsm gets the ability to probe limits is trust. Where demis get attraction is trust. The connection is there. The next time I hang out with a certain friend I’m going to talk to them about the potential for demis to lean into bdsm. Be a demi long enough and you can only dream about being so intimate with someone- until bdsm! This is the same friend who I reached out to when I first realized. I think they feel about sex the same way that I felt so our conversation will be on a level we’ve barely broached before.
I’m really curious what the average age of a lifestyler is when it comes to how they’ve been exposed to the idea of demisexuality. I’m sure they’ve come up with similar words. I’ve legitimately started my own dictionary for the acronyms, this language is kinda fun to figure out.