Help her see her own beauty, the way you see it. Let her know that her scars, imperfections, and flaws are not just a part of her. They make her uniquely stunning. She's a masterpiece of nature, an individual unlike any other, captivating in her uniqueness.
When you look at her, you're struck by her beauty, a gentle, natural, raw beauty. It's the kind of beauty that keeps your gaze fixed, lost in admiration without even realizing it, until you find yourself smiling without knowing why.
But she doesn't see herself through the same lens. Sometimes, she feels defeated by her reflection, focusing on what she perceives as brokenness and flaws, leading her to harsh self-criticism.
She sees her imperfections not as the beautiful stories of her life that you cherish, but as blemishes marring her self-image. Despite appearing strong, she can be her own harshest critic, influenced by the unrealistic standards set by society, the media, and the fashion industry.
She might scrutinize the natural signs of living. The laugh lines, the occasional blemishes, through a lens of judgment, not realizing that these are the very aspects of her beauty that you find mesmerizing and beautiful.
Her self-judgment can stem from various sources, perhaps a comment from the past or societal pressures convincing her she doesn't measure up. As she ages, she might worry about losing her beauty, not understanding that with time, she only grows more beautiful to you. Age brings wisdom, grace, and an inner beauty that only enhances her appeal.
She may always be critical of herself, but it's crucial for her to realize how beautiful she is to you. Show her, tell her, and remind her of her beauty, not just in fleeting moments but consistently, so she can start to see herself through your eyes
10 months ago. May 27, 2024 at 3:39 AM