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4 months ago. December 27, 2023 at 11:14 PM

I recently had someone tell me they live in (and enjoy) organized chaos. Just the thought gave me anxiety. I am SO structured in my everyday life. I am a creature of habit. I’m up at 445, I am work at 6, I leave at 4, I shower as SOON as I get home and I’m in bed by 9 and start it all over again.

 

”Organized chaos” is such an oxy moron. The definition of chaos is “complete disorder and confusion”

 

Maybe my structured life makes me less attractive as a dominant to some submissives. Maybe I’m “boring” because I don’t allow a little “organized chaos” in my life. But when something has worked for me for 10 years, it kinda sticks 

SoaringFree​(sub female) - There's nothing boring about being organized :)
4 months ago
lilbrattybutterfly​(sub female) - I would enjoying being that structured and organized... how do You handle when others priorities that involve Your attention get in Your way? (If I may ask)
4 months ago
jdmdom - I don’t let other’s priorities get in my way. If they can’t keep up, they can ship out. I know that sounds harsh, but I’ve built myself to where I am, and I’m not going to allow someone to drag me down. If they aren’t willing , they aren’t worth it. I’m from the south, so I’m very blunt, and I don’t sugarcoat things. So I apologize if that comes off as me being a Jack ass.
4 months ago
lilbrattybutterfly​(sub female) - It sounds interesting in theory...
4 months ago

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