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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 weeks ago. March 15, 2025 at 1:58 PM

If you are a reader of my blog, you know I take care of my wife with Dementia and aphasia along with memory loss. Diagnosed in 2017 the caregiving has been an education and an extreme stress for me. We have been married for forty years, and I stand by my promise to take care of her. It has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs and I do not have any social life: no family or friends to ease the stress and break the daily cycle that in the last several years has become something akin to the plots in the movies Groundhog's Day and Fifty First Dates.

I do not see any reason to expect an improvement, I think I have gotten used to this weird lifestyle, and things that used to keep me optimistic are fading fast.

No more working on artwork, songwriting, or thoughts of creativity. My wife always needs to be watched, guided and cared for.


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