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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 days ago. March 30, 2025 at 5:26 PM

Yes, I have written in the past things about my wife and about my being kinky, all that reflects my experience and knowledge previous to understanding and knowing about BDSM, and specifically Dominant and submissive.

Hindsight is 20/20 for sure.

Without a doubt, my wife was a classic submissive woman. That doesn't mean she didn't teach me how to be her lover, or rather her kinky lover. She had. Dom sub or switch, we had great sex for two major reasons: 1. I was willing to learn, and 2. she was willing to teach.

Yes, another subtle if not explicit complaint we are no longer lovers because of her ADA, I carefully tested the situation and confirmed that this is our reality, much to my disappointment.

With my libido intact and my doctors telling me a healthy life includes regular sex and that it is a factor in longevity, especially for men is of great concern for me.

I am in no hurry to become a vegetable that is not my goal.

PEOPLE ASK

Do sexually active men live longer?
 
Furthermore, their research showed that men in good or excellent health participated in regular sexual activity lived an extra five to seven years, and women in substantially good health lived three to six years longer.

I think I know why. Without quality sex in a loving relationship, there is no point in living, is there?

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Timeless Dream​(sub female) - Wouldn't masturbation to porn solve your problem?
3 days ago
AndronVerified Account - NO here is the medical explanation:
While both masturbation and sex with a partner can be pleasurable and contribute to sexual well-being, they are distinct experiences with different benefits and contexts.
Here's a breakdown of the differences:
Context and Intimacy:
Sex with a partner involves physical intimacy, emotional connection, and shared experience, while masturbation is a solitary act.
Health Benefits:
Studies suggest that regular sex with a partner can positively impact blood pressure, cardiac vigor, and hormone secretions, which may not be the same for masturbation.
Communication and Consent:
Sex with a partner requires open communication and mutual consent, while masturbation is a personal act that doesn't involve others.
Relationship Dynamics:
Sex with a partner can strengthen relationships, while masturbation is a personal activity that doesn't directly impact relationships.
I AM HEADED FOR AN EARLY DEATH APPARENTLY
3 days ago

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