It seems most BDSM People honestly explain themselves. If you are seeking a Unicorn, a Little, a Sex Slave, or a plain Vanilla Sub, these attributes and many more are displayed up front. Nudity assists in identifying attraction preferences, such as breast size, and the male and female genitalia variations are offered, like just about nowhere else.
I have learned that certain vagina or vulva are more appealing to me. Smaller breasts likewise. I have a penus about six inches but its circumference is above the average. I am circumcised.
In society, it is typical to find a mate fall in love and adapt to what you both get sexually, but BDSM changes not only that, but we can reflect on body type preferences, and many love-making tendencies as well
Here within the BDSM society, I can define my likes and dislikes and tell a potential lover what my limits are and in what way I like to experiment. In general, one excellent lover I had before my current marriage explained to me how I was "kinky". In my nature but ignorant of this trait.
I was married three times, and by chance, my current wife of forty years and I were an excellent sexual pair until dementia destroyed us as lovers. The first two not so much. Youthful sexual exploits were all about my being satisfied, now I strive to please my lover more.
Thank you, BDSM community and especially this site for being so educational. I only regret not realizing all these benefits as a young man.
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