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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
10 months ago. Monday, March 31, 2025 at 5:43 PM

GOOGLE AI: Humans have a fundamental need for touch, crucial for both physical and emotional well-being, fostering healthy relationships, reducing stress, and promoting a sense of connection and belonging. 

Humans naturally crave intimacy, which is crucial for well-being and involves feeling valued, connected, and understood, both physically and emotionally. 

I can hug and kiss my wife (not to be crass), but I can do the same with my cat and dogs. Long ago, I learned how needy I was when deprived of this when my second wife abandoned my son and me (she, an RN, thought he was going to die young with his heart defect).

My wife, with Dementia Alzheimer's and Aphasia, is leaving me once more on the shore of an unexplored island without the intimacy I need so very badly. Of course, I will take care of her despite this and not abandon her.

Intimacy can not be purchased in Walmart or on Amazon. I tried to do so online and was severely scammed (my stupidity, of course).

I am so glad I can express myself here on The Cage without former friends and family criticizing or condemning me.

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