Andron(neither male)

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.

It Seems Money Has Advantage

10 months ago. Friday, April 4, 2025 at 3:23 PM

If I were wealthy, I could buy a lover even if she faked it. The song "Can't Buy Me Love" is a myth. If it looks like love, feels like love, and acts like love, who cares: It is love. I've seen many news articles about the advantaged men having multiple lovers, and even when doing something wrong and get caught, they seem to get away with it. Before I was scammed out of my liquid cash, I had numerous ladies telling me they would help me, even that they loved me before they even knew me. Now managing ok, but no longer with ample money available, the school of women circling me has vanished.

I met wealthy men with young wives after divorcing their long-serving spouse, even with young children in tow. This seems to be a fact of life.

I refuse to divorce my wife of forty years because she can not be my lover; that act is not in me.

The wealthy man's song might be: