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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
9 months ago. Tuesday, April 15, 2025 at 10:28 AM

In the 1960s, we hippies were naive, believing the world could be run by people with the spirit of love. WRONG!

Greed and Power Seeking is number one. Hate is number two. The positive driving forces of empathy and Love are way down on the list.

Despite being well-educated people and numerous religious people in the World? They fall short. I see religion as a significant factor in promoting hate and violence. Ironically, humanism fares far better but is despised by many religious sects.

If the 1960s experienced a wave of positives and improvements for humans, these days it seems to be the opposite. We seem to be within a storm created by greedy and hate-driven people.

I am a Misanthrope for valid reasons: It is Hard to love but easy to hate. 

Word for the day: HYPOCRITE - a person who claims to have moral standards or beliefs to which they do not personally conform; they pretend to be something they are not. Essentially, a hypocrite's words and actions contradict each other. 

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