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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
9 months ago. Tuesday, April 22, 2025 at 10:50 AM

It is not a coincidence that the way things suddenly seem to emerge and relate is the way reality works. The story of Pesto.

In the 1990s, it seems that all of a sudden, everyone I knew was having Pesto. It was offered in restaurants, and recipes seemed to pop up everywhere.

This type of coincidence has seemed to happen often with some popular things, like a Furby toy or a Hula Hoop, encouraged by marketing. Yet I have experienced this type of coincidence that did not seem connected to advertisement or word of mouth, it just appeared to pop up spontaneously. I theorize it is the collective result of known and unknown influences permeating the prevailing reality. 

Some of these coincidental examples can be attributed to significant world events: war, famine, disease, or even a historical event like the moon landings. I am not omniscient or a savant, but the one thought I have is that somehow the reality we all share is how we are connected (see previous blog). This and similar happenings have something to do with this phenomenon, is my best guess.

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