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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
9 months ago. Saturday, April 26, 2025 at 9:06 AM

I have not one doubt about it: Sexual Attraction is Automatic.

I believe first of all, our genes and chemistry control who we are attracted to, and our nurture either works for that or against that. If we are left to navigate puberty, we become aware of the process and by the time most of us reach adulthood, we have a clear picture who we are sexually.

Google AI Overview

There are many different sexual orientations, and it is impossible to determine an exact number. Some common sexual orientations include:  
Heterosexual: Attraction to people of the opposite sex
Homosexual (Gay or Lesbian): Attraction to people of the same sex
Bisexual: Attraction to people of both sexes
Asexual: Lack of sexual attraction
Pansexual: Attraction to people of any gender
Queer: An umbrella term for individuals who do not identify as heterosexual or cisgender
Intersex: Individuals born with variations in sex characteristics  
It's important to note that these are just a few examples, and there are many other sexual orientations that exist. Additionally, individuals may identify with multiple sexual orientations or change their identification over time.

No one else should or even can alter who you know who you are in this regard. Trying to interfere is dangerous to your well-being and may cause great harm to you. ONLY YOU KNOW WHY YOU ARE THE WAY YOU ARE, AND IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO CONTINUE OR ALTER THE PATH YOU ARE ON AS YOU SEE FIT.

Your happiness and emotional equilibrium are at stake. Interference from external sources (from ignorant people who pretend to know better) does the most harm.

Freedom to be who you are, foils tghe sterotypical idealism as defined by others is an errant point of view - prejudice and bigotry.


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