The social need is combined with two other human needs: sexual and comfort (security).
When two people engage in close bodily contact, the very first need satisfied is comfort. Warm body contact is like a homecoming, and much of the trials and tribulations of the world around us fade away.
In combination or possibly in isolation, the sexual need is included in the intimate meeting of two people.
I reflect on the origin of life forms that need sexual contact to reproduce. This was the priority. With the evolution of life forms with two sexes for procreation, the comfort and security of establishing relationships followed. It is important because at this point, so much has evolved from this beginning that the simplicity has been overshadowed by culture and tradition.
In my current life, I care for my wife with dementia because I honor my commitment, and I do love her, but she can not offer me comfort and security, nor quench my sexual need. This is not as unique as some people may think.
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Several animal species exhibit altruistic behaviors, caring for sick or injured individuals within their groups. Examples include primates like chimpanzees who use medicinal plants, and elephants who assist sick calves. Even insects like monarch butterflies have been observed to protect their offspring from infection by laying eggs on anti-parasitic plants.
This intrinsic behavior contributes to the survival of a species, but I know it has rewards beyond this alone. Self-worth and accomplishment provide the hormones of feeling well and love: These include serotonin, dopamine, endorphins, and oxytocin. Nothing can replace this chemical reaction between lovers.
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