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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
3 days ago. Wednesday, April 15, 2026 at 8:06 AM

What is a blog? A narrative, an anecdote, a confession, sharing, or maybe even a boast. What a blog is not is a conversation. It may lead to a conversation, a friendship, an enlightenment, or nothing at all. How do people respond?

Sometimes they sense the writer's need accurately and engage in a dialogue. Unfortunately, because of the limitations of how a blogger conveys an idea, the reader must make assumptions; some are correct, most are probably not.

Here I have met people who care, some get it, some do not, and the rest choose not to comment, so I do not know much about them.

I could as many a celebrity does wave a kiss off and say, "I love you all." 

I do appreciate positive responses and learn from negative responses.

The emotional and intellectual engagement confirms that I do not know everything and that I remain a student of and in life.


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