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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
3 days ago. Monday, April 20, 2026 at 1:32 PM

What do you want most to be loved, to be cherished, to be needed, or to be wanted? All? Yes, as many as possible, but maybe one being emphasized at a time?

It amazes me how an attractive woman still arouses me at my age. When most of us were younger, we couldn't imagine the sexuality of people older than sixty (perhaps even younger than that). What a surprise to learn that no matter how old one is, as long as he or she is healthy, they still can have a benefit from having a sex life. But with age comes a balance, yet simple touching goes to the depths of my being. I miss that feeling.

I find a woman has to deliberately discourage a man's admiration by forcing herself to walk so as not to attract him, especially me. And for me, one look into the eyes of some women is like being hit by a bolt of lightning. Maybe I will be this way until my dust returns to the stars. I hope so.

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