... A feminine woman seems gentile (my wife grew up with three brothers watch out when she got mad); feminine mannerisms and gestures are pleasing and counter my awkward almost clumsy ways; a feminine woman sees the world differently and alerts me to something I missed like I am getting angry; a sub female does her work without complaint (my wife); I feel wonderful when she holds and kisses me; when we are on the same page having sex IS MAKING LOVE.
She often fights nice when she fights with you unless you are a fool and a brute. If you love her she loves you back more, and nothing about you is so negative that it will destroy that love unless you are a fool and abuse her.
Find a way to love her, she may appreciate the little things but now and then surprise her with a special gift or a special night. Sometimes shut up and hold her. Tell her what she already knows that you, need, want, and love her don't assume she knows and it is never said too much.
She may be hard to find or nearby you should learn to read the signs of her interest.
Sometimes she may find you.
Be honest and true in every kind of relationship but especially a monogamous one.