Andron Dom

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

My Need In Plain Language

3 months ago. February 5, 2024 at 5:36 PM

Dear Friends,

This post is very personal. For more than three years I have been the only caregiver for my wife with Alzheimer's in a town I accidentally wound up living in. I know virtually no one here and with no ability to have a social life that has not changed in two years in PA. I sought a companion online and was scammed heavily. Eventually, I was taken under the wings of a Dominatrix who has taught me about being a Master. Seems my wife of 39 years was a perfect Sub. I unknowingly a very good Dom unaware that is what the relationship was precisely. I took care of us she took care of me and we were entirely monogamous. Then she got seriously ill and my whole life is under revision.

She has a very limited ability to be what she once was and I refuse to give her up. I will take care of her for as long as possible. The cost? Not the money I squandered the money. The loss of her interactions, help, her being my lover, and my connection to any kind of social life. I can't afford to have her watched and she can't be left alone; family was the first group of people to abandon us. So what am I looking for; and hoping for?

First I am not looking for a nurse for her or a replacement for her. I am looking for a woman sub who can be these in this order: Friend, Helper, Companion, and if it goes well affectionate lover. All that will be a process that takes time (that is all I have now). If the sub becomes all that for me? I will cherish her, care for her, and LOVE her.

flitter'fly(sub female) - I am so sorry my friend.
Very hard indeed.
When reading, certain words come to me about your situation.
About you, who you are, what you are looking for, and hope to again one day.

Love, compassion, care, passion, friend, soul, lover, giver, need, companionship, loss, hurt, sadness, grieving, hope, want.
And so much more.

Any woman would love to have the devotion, and love, that you have to give.
The one you seek, will hear your call. She feels it soul deep.
She is seeking you as well.
Hold strong, I feel her need of you, and with you, as i feel yours.
She is coming.
Do not lose Faith.

Your wife knows the love you have of her, and for her.
She knows what you have given to her, she feels your sadness, loss, and grief.
And she is beyond thankful.
Be strong, prayers, encouragement, love, and strength, sent your way.
Hugs 🤗
FlitterFly
DawnRobin

3 months ago

Andron Dom - Thank You Dawn for taking the time to give me a positive message. Today I really needed it. Jim

3 months ago

ladypatience - My heart feels for you and your wife. I will pray that you find the person your looking for. Just keep looking. Sending you both love, peace and light your way.

3 months ago

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - Hey, Boss, I had a sub whose mom came to U/us with Alzheimer's as well.. I FEEL your pain, though it was never someone so close to Me as Your situation. Every day is a step, all You can do is take each step, lift and place it in front of You.. Each step is a step closer to finding this mysterious 'She'. *I* too was introduced to the lifestyle by a Domme, who also took ME under Her arm, and gave Me detailed directions and training..

3 months ago

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