Hello This Morning,
When I was a young man with a young woman our sexual there wasn't much to consider when it came to erogenous zones it came naturally and having sex happened spontaneously and it progressed swiftly because the desire was strong and the reactions were fast. Then As I aged I began to find myself wanting to increase the time making love and enhance the experience for myself and my partner. Gradually I sought and discovered ways to increase the arousal and the duration of (sex) making love. It was the beginning of learning what were and where were the erogenous zones. How to make use of that knowledge and explore the psychology behind arousal. "Kinks" are tied more to psychology than the physical arousal zones. My first knowledge of a kinky thing for me and a vivid pleasure experience for my lover was my giving oral sex to her.
My lover said, "You are getting kinky." And it went on ever since and my wife taught me some things and I experimented (and given a chance I will continue on this progression and experimentation, especially with external materials, rope, leather, role-playing, beads, games . . . etc.
But this is a post to assist those who need encouragement in learning about and exploring erogenous zones. One note not everyone has a favorite zone or way you will arouse her or him find out two ways: try it and ask. Here is a helpful link: