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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
2 years ago. Tuesday, February 6, 2024 at 10:09 PM

Hey Guys we all get older and since we sexually peaked in our late teens or twenties we have to be aware of the changes that can occur: Prostate issues are the major issues but erectile dysfunction is in the mix. It is said we all will experience an ED episode in our life and for some, it lingers. Cialis and Viagra can help but mind over matter comes into play. If you begin to worry about it the anxiety hinders your erection and performance. I am 76 and my libido is very strong but my prostate (no not cancer) has some calcium deposits and it affects my semen output and my ability to empty my bladder. Several things can be done: exercise, diet, supplements, and Flowmax for emptying my bladder helps too. Dry ejaculation is not a serious health issue but if you want to sire children it needs to be addressed. I am talking to my urologist but in the meantime, diet supplements and regular ejaculations improved the situation for me. If you experience retrograde orgasms the pleasure is the same but your partner may enjoy seeing your semen so you will have to work on it.

The main thing brothers? Cultivate your libido, keep sexually active, and see your doctor for help. I was deeply afraid of seeing a urologist but once I had the improvement started and the psychology was better understood helped me also. I have a Girlfriend who is 34 and she agreed we will have a baby together. Aside from working with a urologist you still have active sperm and in vitro (IVF) fertilization can be the answer as an option. My son and daughter choose not to provide grandchildren which is why I will have to procreate another son or daughter. Fortunately for me, my family has a history of longevity even the men who abused themselves with alcohol and smoking.  Therefore I may be able to share a significant amount of time with any child I would have late in life.

Remember two things: You can lose what you don't use and an active sex life keeps you healthy (my opinion).

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