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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 months ago. February 15, 2024 at 2:23 AM

Hello Friends,

Ok, you want the job. They read your resume and are interested in you. Come to work tomorrow? NO "WE have to interview you."

A prospective mate is recruited like that: arranged marriages or "Mail Order Brides".  The vast majority of us when we date gather information and logically assess our prospective mates not really. We rely on superficial things maybe our "gut " feeling. That isn't the best approach but an interview is still important romantic or not.

I have looked for a prospective date (even though currently I can not date) and when I read that she wants, to cuddle watch a movie, take a walk go out to eat once a month; that is ok. But if she wants to travel, do expensive sports, hop around clubs, and party; I can not do it.

Dom Sub: Sub Dom Protocol. Have a protocol that delineates what you will and will not do. Agree or disagree in great detail. If you want some leeway spell it out so each has a clear picture. Don't leave it to chance.

 

https://kinkyevents.co.uk/submissive-rules-complete-guide/

https://collarncuffs.com/resources/doku.php?id=protocols_4_d_s

https://dommeslife.com/education/protocols/

buckle bunny​(sub female){Walkalone } - I think that's why it's so important to know who you are.. what you want... know your worth..and stay true to that.. be open with each other and take the time to really get to know who that other person is deep down inside
3 months ago

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