Hello Friends,
Ok, you want the job. They read your resume and are interested in you. Come to work tomorrow? NO "WE have to interview you."
A prospective mate is recruited like that: arranged marriages or "Mail Order Brides". The vast majority of us when we date gather information and logically assess our prospective mates not really. We rely on superficial things maybe our "gut " feeling. That isn't the best approach but an interview is still important romantic or not.
I have looked for a prospective date (even though currently I can not date) and when I read that she wants, to cuddle watch a movie, take a walk go out to eat once a month; that is ok. But if she wants to travel, do expensive sports, hop around clubs, and party; I can not do it.
Dom Sub: Sub Dom Protocol. Have a protocol that delineates what you will and will not do. Agree or disagree in great detail. If you want some leeway spell it out so each has a clear picture. Don't leave it to chance.