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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, February 22, 2024 at 5:23 PM

Hello Friends,

If my wife were not suffering from a brain disease this is how a typical day might go:

Up in the morning first I feed the dogs and cat and get the dog out for a walk. I get stuff ready to make breakfast for her and me. Two eggs each turkey sausage hash browns cranberry juice. Coffee for me and tea for her. I put the news and weather on for a little while. Since neither of us works, we plan a ride through the country and have lunch at an inviting place. 

Afterward, we stopped by some shops for miscellaneous items and then to the supermarket for groceries. We get home unload our items and it is growing dark so I put on some lamps check the temperature in the house and make adjustments. I make supper this time pasta with tomato sauce, then feed the cat and dogs. Walk the dogs. When I got back I saw my wife had done the dishes and dressed in more comfortable clothes.

I check the emails and the mail sort out the bills for the next day and look at the television listings. We both like mysteries, especially from the UK so we decided to watch an ITV series Agatha Christie's Poirot episode, and sit together on the couch close to each other and at some point we dozed off so we shut the lights and the TV and go up to bed.

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