Andron Dom

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

Thoughts on A safety Word

2 months ago. February 28, 2024 at 2:13 AM

Hello Friends,

When interviewing a potential sub, it's important to cover all the necessary topics and ensure they express themselves accurately. A trial period and evaluation can help determine the viability of the relationship. Is it important to establish a safety word in case of too much pain during kinks and to have a way to abort if a kink arises that wasn't previously discussed?

How does this work in actual relationships? I would guess for some, it is very important and detailed, while for others, it is less comprehensive.

I'mME - *and to have a way to abort if a kink arises that wasn't previously discussed?*

This ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️ should not happen.

2 months ago

Satindragon - A safe word is always good to have in place. Some use the red light system. While others choose unusual words that the submissive can remember when in duress and that is clear to the Dominant. Just saying STOP does not always work in this lifestyle unless it is the agreed upon safe word.

If gags are in place a cat’s ball that has a bell inside can be placed in the hand. Dropping it should get the Dom’s attention.

2 months ago

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