Andron

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

A Disappointment

1 year ago. March 2, 2024 at 2:30 AM

Hello Friends,

Many of you know I am my wife's only caregiver. Her Alzheimer's/Dementia/Aphasia has been a relentless effort to deal with. I don't want to not care for her but I could use some help especially som time off to recharge after about three brutal years. I applied for financial assistance because we fall between government help and out-of-pocket care. I received word today that we were denied the extra help. So it is business as usual. the job goes on. Counseling, share groups anti-anxiety meds and antidepressants are what I depend on still.

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - Hey, Boss, I have reached out before.. I, possibly incorrectly, consider You a friend, and I will do ANYTHING for those few that I give that moniker to.. Friends are Family, in My eyes.. If You would message Me, I'll be GLAD to send You My number.. I KNOW support groups may not be available 24/7.. But there is ALWAYS someone up in the Household between the three of U/us here now.. I will let My girls know that if You call, to wake Me up IMMEDIATELY.. (I don't sleep much anyway due to pain levels, especially with the weather the way it is, so I'll probably be the one that answers regardless..)

1 year ago

Andron - Thank you. The Veterans Administration has a caregiver system: I am a vet my wife is not but I get the basic counseling (Suicide avoidance) and meds to cope. Ironically almost all caregivers are women and 99% of the time I am the only man seeking support. I will keep your offer in mind and say thank you again.

1 year ago

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The Culture that has been here all the time

A Disappointment

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