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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, March 3, 2024 at 3:15 PM

Hello Friends,

I feel I must tell you about my BIG cat Sunny Day. That is the name the Animal Shelter had for him. He was four years old when we got him. We have had him for four years now. He has been the most loving cat we have ever had. Most nights, he sleeps on my wife's shoulders and becomes a living collar. When the "wee" hours of the morning arrive he tries to wake me and coax me into giving him and early breakfast. That happened several times until I finally decided it was time for me to get up.

He led the way down the stairs to the kitchen, purring and rubbing my leg. He makes sounds like no other cat we have had, and I think he is talking in some language. First, I check the water, then give him dry food. After he crunches for a bit he come back to speak to me. He jumps on my lap and kisses me like a dog if I sit at the table. He comes running if he is in another room, and I call him by name. 

His reward? A can of choice cat food sometimes I give him some of my sardines.

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