Andron Dom

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

Are There Limits to Love

2 months ago. March 13, 2024 at 1:58 PM

Hello Friends,

I put this question: Are there limits to Love (this is human for human)? How many loves can you offer? Are you able to successfully love more people simultaneously? If you divide your love between multiple people, is it watered down? Do you believe it is partially emotional, partially physical, and all action reveals it?

First, Within a family comprised of parents, children, siblings, and extended members, as one person in this family, is your ability to diminish (water down) love because of the intrinsic number?

Second, I can and do love multiple people. Does my love end if a friend or even one of my children offends me? No, but if they refuse to stop offending, I am forced to keep my distance.

Third, I believe in romantic love because I am a romantic idealist. I relish the process of meeting and falling in love with (in my case) a woman. I learn all about her, develop a relationship, and make it work to the best of my ability. If a breakup or a divorce modifies the relations, I still love them, even if the reason for the parting was harsh. I do not harbor hate.

Fourth, I am made to be part of a relationship. I am not an island; several songs (even some of my own) point this out. I prefer to devote my emotions and actions to a woman who does the same for me. Can I simultaneously love more than one woman without being torn apart or tearing at the hearts of the women involved? In the 1960s, I lived through my "Paris Time" in New York's Greenwich Village within a culture ahead of its time. I did love more than one girl, and only one was hurt. (She wanted me to move to Sweden, her home, but that wasn't for me then).

If a girl liked me and I did not like her, maybe she would be disappointed, as I was when a girl I wanted didn't like me.

So now, after sailing many times on rough seas with waves of conservatism and liberalism tossing me about, I have arrived at a place I call my home. It is a place where I live, not lawlessly or ignoring the views of others, but a place where I am free to be me. And I hope to become friends with people like me. But I am not a salesman, a politician, a preacher, a guru, a dictator, or a messiah. I will not convince them to be another me.

It sounds trite and dated, but John Lennon's song has more meaning for me now:
All You Need Is Love
Wikipediahttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › All_You_Need_Is_Love
"All You Need Is Love" is a song by the English rock band the Beatles that was released as a non-album single in July 1967. It was written by John Lennon ...

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - I, My Friend, coming from a heretofore unknown avenue, will attempt to answer Your questions as categorically as is possible for Me.. (Be warned, I have several shots in Me at the moment, and might meander a tad..)
I do NOT believe, though I have two partners living in the Household at the moment, that the love I have for either of them is watered down. Period. YES, one, Natalie (PrincessFlitterP on here) has been with Me for over 6 years, and I owe her 44 MORE at the moment, and My Flitter has only been here a month.. There ARE things that Natalie and I have accepted as unspoken rules and taken for granted as accepted over the years, that Flitter (Dawn) is learning herself having walked into an established dynamic, and W/we are A/all learning and teaching the rules of said dynamic.. But she KNOWS she is loved, accepted and protected from the harsh world outside the walls of O/our Household by the love she feels and thrives on inside these walls..

Your first point I cannot, or more poignantly WILL not answer, I am the oldest of My siblings.. In My mom's eyes, *I* was the reason her dreams never came to fruition, so had to bear the brunt of her displeasure.. That is the end of what I'll say on that subject.. I have blogged about it enough and given this woman FAR more attention than she ever deserved..

Your second point, I can only partially answer.. I, also, love multiple people.. Even MORE so because I have accepted her children as well.. I have NOT gotten to know them all yet, but those I HAVE got to know Me and accepted Me into THEIR lives as well..

Your third point I DO love more than one woman, and am fortunate that THEY love each other as well.. I had My OWN 'paris time', but am not sure it means the same thing on either hand.. *laugh* In those times that You do YOUR best, if it does not work out, that is not YOUR fault.. ALL You can ever do is Your best, if it falls short or gets snubbed, it was not meant to be.. I do not harbor hate either, I had enough of that in My past.. MOSTLY from My Own Family..

Your fourth point, I completely understand the desire to be part of a relationship.. I, however, learned a long time ago, just like with the opinions of others, that if I can't live with Myself, or even learn to LOVE Myself, how can others ever do so? I do understand that YOUR walk is not MY walk, My Friend, but commonalities remain regardless..

I, too, have sailed the seas and been sent this way or that on the waves of conservatism and liberalism only to find the direction MY life has directed Me to, which I will refrain from mentioning because politics is something I refrain from discussing in public.. But, should You desire, My Friend, I would be MORE than happy to enter into an in depth discourse on the subject in private..

You Friend as always,
Dom

2 months ago

Andron Dom - Dom, thanks for the thoughtful and thorough answer. We share much. Paris? I was immersed in art, music, and romance to the max. My only visit to Paris, France, was brief, and I was met with a dislike of Americans. But then I never travel the worn path so I strayed off into the common peoples neighborhood I dislike being a tourest. (same as my brother Dan, a more extensive world traveler. We each have near-death experiences, and as a result, I'll retake Switzerland any time). You and your girls look happy, and that says it all. I love my wife with her last remaining—communication mode of hugs and kisses. My girl (trained subs will be here soon.) I asked the Dominatrix if they would love me, and she told me she was sure they would (?). I need them in my world. The predominant or prevailing society is becoming much detached from me.I long to have all three here to love in each their unique way. In friendship Jim

2 months ago

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - i would advise ONLY do not approach ANY of these girls Your Friend is introducing You to as possible 'relationships'.. I visited Paris for 8 hours.. I did not get to see any sights, only got to visit My hotel room, and was under an alias.. That's all I will say.. Same with Tokyo, Sydney, Rome and Belfast.. I have been quite a few places, only those places in the States was I free to visit the sights.. (Mount Rushmore was My FAVORITE) As for My Family.. All I can do is My best, which I try to do every single day. Sometimes I miss the mark, but W/we ALWAYS come together.. Today is a HUGE day for My Flitter.. I will not divulge any details, that is for HER to do, if she so chooses, but it is a BIG step for her to take in her life.. I hope, and HONESTLY DO pray that You get what You are seeking from the coming revelations.. You HAVE My number, I gave it to You in the message I sent.. You can call or text ANY time, My Friend..

Always Your Friend,
Dom

2 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Yes, absolutely yesss.
We can love thoroughly, compleatly, significantly, and In depth, to the fullest extent.
In all relationships, whether it be platonic or romantic.
As for being one who knows how, or has the want to do so, is the difference.
Not many these days know how or choose to do so in compleatness. Therefore, falling short and making others feel forgotten or insignificant.
This is why poly is harder for some than for others.
It takes a want, a need, and a devotion most can not give, or choose not to.
Just my own two cents and opinions.

2 months ago

Andron Dom - I subdued my ability and preference too long I can and I can. If I get a real opportunity, I will.

2 months ago

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - Jim? I took two years to be ME.. Being single and working on Myself.. I had a PLETHORA of opportunities to accept this or that into My life.. But *I* needed time to adjust Myself.. To grow after a failed relationship (someone that was not the person they were when I met them) NOT to Your extent, but facts are facts.. I am the absolute luckiest man on Earth to have found two women that accept ME.. What more can any man ask for?
As for 'opportunities'.. They come and pass almost daily.. Make of them what You will.. SOME are sent into Your path to distract Your attention from the REAL opportunities that cross Your path as well..

2 months ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely 🤗

2 months ago

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