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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 8:44 AM

Hello Friends,

We know visual stimulation is powerful; the sight of a woman lying on her stomach with her ass propped up a little is a powerful arousing image for me, shaved pussy or not. I am drawn to that image, and if I stare too long, fantasies begin to dominate my mind. Exploring the entire woman visually is so inviting I am almost unable to think of anything else. I start to create a plan of how I will examine her loveliness, sometimes with spontaneity methodically, with Variations in the appearance of pussies and nipples having various effects on me. It is time to feel.

Now, the map in my mind is drawn, and I plan my touch strategy: light touches and light strokes to massage like exploration with my hands. Then I begin to taste her, kiss and lick, and she gives signs of encouragement whenever I hit the right spot. A moan, heavier breathing, maybe a yell. And all the while, she is exploring me.

Occasionally, we pause and focus or let our partner focus on the delivery of pleasure. The whole process can be repeated throughout the entire time we are together. Maybe a rest in between when it starts all over again.

I conclude that sight and touch are essential, and how you perceive and use them determines how long a love-making session lasts.

Or, how long you want it to last.

 


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