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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Monday, March 18, 2024 at 7:15 PM

Hello Friends,

Now that I am older and less able to engage in life as I once did, memories often fill my days. Circumstances have left me with most of my friends and relatives no longer "with us." So what do we, older people who prefer not to watch TV reruns and old movies all day or feel nostalgic all the time? I would instead still engage in life for real, but that seems to be a challenge for me now.

Imagination, dreams, and fantasies can go a long way for me these days. I can imagine what I used to do or would do if given the chance. On the more exotic side, I can be creative with my imaginings to the point that they become pure fantasy. The best internal experience comes in dreams, especially if I am fortunate to have lucid dreams. 

In dreams, I can be as I was when I was young and athletic, able to accomplish things that are a bit of a challenge for an old man. I can do things beyond possible, like fly around and travel the earth at will to unique places (better than with virtual reality goggles).

So, I am off on another adventure as my day permits when I am not "minding the farm."


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