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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, April 18, 2024 at 2:26 PM

Hello Friends,

One way to think of life and how we are experiencing it is to envision an envelope or cacoon, and we are inside. We can see the world around us interact to a degree, but we can remain safe inside if we stay in our comfort zone. Sometimes, we can let others come inside and join us. All the interactions, even perceived interactions, create how we view the world through our cacoon. How big is the inside of the cacoon? Is it as big or as small as we want it to be? One thing for sure, however small or large the cacoon is, is all we can perceive about our existence and how we interact with it.

If we enter into relationships, they can be as simple as your cacoon and their cacoon viewing, touching, or even merging and becoming one (as much as possible).

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