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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, April 18, 2024 at 7:55 PM

Hello Friends,

Look around. Your partner, lover, or friend may forgive someone you disapprove of, but isn't forgiveness the higher moral ground? Are there unforgivable sins between humans aside from causing lethal harm? Even ordinary people express forgiveness when a fellow human harms one of their family members (sometimes that seems unbelievable). Without forgiveness, wars would never end, relationships would never mend, and stubbornness would never bend. What are some of the outcomes of forgiveness?

Will people adjust their behavior?

Will people love as before?

Will people help repair what damage was done?

If forgiveness is avoided things would be hanging in the air ready to happen again.

If forgiveness is avoided, communication will probably be cut.

If forgiveness is avoided, what could have been might never be.

Forgiveness, like love, is a word of action. When it is genuine, it brings positive results and helps a relationship mature and become strong enough to endure the assaults the world can hurl at it.

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