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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Friday, April 19, 2024 at 11:56 AM

Hello Friends,

Yes, happiness is different for different people. My questions today are: Is it elusive? Is it ephemeral? Can it be permanent? Is it a state or just a feeling? 

"People also ask
What defines happiness?
Typically, happiness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. While happiness has many different definitions, it is often described as involving positive emotions and life satisfaction.Nov 7, 2022"

I am not limited to religious thought, simple contentment, or theoretical philosophical thought. I will explore what may be the very basic thought as I see it.

"Happiness is only partially determined by your genes — the rest is up to you and your environment. The hallmarks of happiness are feeling satisfied, enjoying daily activities, and feeling purposeful.May 18, 2022"

Let us imagine our emotions with respect to happiness like the surface of a body of water: The waves representing moods.

... Lake Titicaca is the largest freshwater lake in South America and the highest of the world's large lakes. ... 3 810 m above sea level . . .

The Dead Sea is the lowest lake in the world. It is located in Israel's Jordan Valley, which is also the lowest elevation point on Earth's surface. The surface of the lake is approximately 1,385 feet (408m) below sea level. U.S. Geological Survey. Land Below Sea Level by David K. Lynch. 2010. Retrieved online at: 

The bottom represents depression, and the tips of surface waves represent happiness with its ups and downs. Using that illustration, I ask myself, am I a bottom dweller or a surface dweller, and am I in a high-altitude body of water or a low-altitude body of water? 

 

 

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