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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, May 9, 2024 at 11:06 AM

My Friends,

Within our sphere of reality, we are free to see what we want. I could see dark rainclouds as a gloomy threat or as a blessing for my gardens: it is all in my ability to choose. I have had a saying (it could be a mantra) that something is never as good or as wrong as it seems. A newer quote is, "It is what it is." However, how I feel about whatever and what I do about whatever is up to me. 

I have often been teased that I make a science out of everything (LOL): Investigate, experiment, theorize, and apply what I learn to my life.

I see all the plants and animals around me ask questions and look them up. When I stand with a wide-open vista, I imagine the past and future, how it got the way it is, and what it may look like.

Entropy ensures that things will change, and I can not stop it. However, I can accept, adjust, and move on.

 “Thoughts become perception, perception becomes reality. Alter your thoughts, alter your reality.”

— William James

 

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