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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, May 9, 2024 at 8:07 PM

Hello Freinds,

All kinky variations I and a partner can agree to enjoy, and what we may want to try will start with a simple premise: Are we comfortable making love to each other, and is it satisfying? If so, then we may embark on a sensual, sexual adventure and enjoy each other. You may mistakenly believe I have rescued you, but you have rescued me. From what, you may ask? From a sensationless, senseless, sexless existence. No wonderful feeling of bliss. No falling off to sleep completely content and fulfilled. No early morning joyful awakening. 

Now, we can walk on a beach or a mountain trail and feel like this world was made for us—for us to enjoy. Every day, ordinary things become extraordinary when shared. We can share dreams for a future together.

We then find we are not only comfortable without a sexual relationship but our love relationship as well.

Let us stroll amid the blossoms in the gentle spring rain, then snuggle by a warm fire to fend off the chill. And say, I need you, I want you, I love you.


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