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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Saturday, June 1, 2024 at 5:07 PM

Hey friends, it takes a wise person to admit it is time to move on. And so I now realize it is time for me to make that significant change to the final place to live and still be active (as active as I can be). Yes, the step just before you are led around and kept where others have to take complete care of you.

My wife has Dementia (Az/Aph), and keeping up with my healthcare challenges tells me it is time to sell this house and move to a single-level home in a senior citizen community where assistance and vigilance make it a better choice as I  (we) age. Still trying to figure out how to accomplish it. I still have stuff to remove; some are in a self-storage unit. Since I wasted some financial resources, it will be more of a challenge to make this move than in 2022. Find a potential community and an excellent financial plan to make it work.

Maybe there is a place like Kinatopia for Senior Citizens (LOL). I can't be too fussy, but I would like to have my small pets and be able to see green hills clearly from my windows.

The fact is I have a few plans and expectations: aside from my pets, a couple of plants, a good TV, affordable health care, and maybe a pond to sit by and watch the seasons pass.

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