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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
4 months ago. June 1, 2024 at 9:07 PM

Hey friends, it takes a wise person to admit it is time to move on. And so I now realize it is time for me to make that significant change to the final place to live and still be active (as active as I can be). Yes, the step just before you are led around and kept where others have to take complete care of you.

My wife has Dementia (Az/Aph), and keeping up with my healthcare challenges tells me it is time to sell this house and move to a single-level home in a senior citizen community where assistance and vigilance make it a better choice as I  (we) age. Still trying to figure out how to accomplish it. I still have stuff to remove; some are in a self-storage unit. Since I wasted some financial resources, it will be more of a challenge to make this move than in 2022. Find a potential community and an excellent financial plan to make it work.

Maybe there is a place like Kinatopia for Senior Citizens (LOL). I can't be too fussy, but I would like to have my small pets and be able to see green hills clearly from my windows.

The fact is I have a few plans and expectations: aside from my pets, a couple of plants, a good TV, affordable health care, and maybe a pond to sit by and watch the seasons pass.

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Check with the local council on aging. They may be able to help you find a great place. Or maybe point you in the direction of finding a place.
4 months ago
Andron{NO} - The community fees are deal breakers
4 months ago
Bunnie - This sounds like a great idea. Best of luck to you both! :)
4 months ago
Andron{NO} - The community fees are deal breakers
4 months ago

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