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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Monday, November 4, 2024 at 9:33 AM

I have been dealing with a more challenging caregiving situation recently. It is lonely since my wife is in hospital. I do a great deal of reflection and thinking.

Reality is unique for every living entity: We must survive and ensure our species continues. The story from each entities point of view is different. Ears, tongues, fingerprints, and DNA reflect individuality. The variations enhance survivability and play a part in the social aspects of interactions between individuals. I read not long ago that even plants sense other plants' nearness and adjust their position in an ecosystem.

We can never ignore the sexual tension between men and women, and even so-called platonic relationships indeed have a sexual component, even if it is suppressed. Therefore, friendship between species may involve food. There is an example of cross-species friends that seem to be just that: friendship.

My old dogs comfort me in this lonely time, but my friend Sunny Day, the cat, is very important to me.

James

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