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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Monday, November 11, 2024 at 6:59 PM

Something we all need at times?

 Oxford Dictionary: the action of giving someone support, confidence, or hope.
"thank you for all your support and encouragement"

What if we do not have the support and encouragement we need? We either find a way to succeed or succumb to failure. I have failed to care for my wife lately: a fall and digestive tract issues. The hospital had no help despite many tests.

Sometimes, I do not know how I keep going with little if any, support and encouragement. A small voice tells me to keep going, not to give up, get up off the ground, knock the mud off my face, and try again. 

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There is a bugaboo. When I was young and optimistic, I peered into the tunnel of life, and it seemed there was light at the distant end. In these years now, when I peer into the tunnel of life, all I can see at the far end is a dark, foggy cloud.

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Maybe a better end at the tunnel. pixabay.com

We are an integral part of the Universe made out of stardust, so it would be fitting to return to the stars, don't you agree?

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