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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, November 24, 2024 at 8:27 AM

“Because it feels so good when I stop!”   By Catherine Klasne

There’s an old joke that goes something like this:  A man comes upon another man who is repeatedly hitting his thumb with a hammer.  When asked why he’s beating his thumb to a pulp, the man with the hammer replies, “Because it feels so good when I stop!”   While this may not be a shining example of humor, I think there’s a lesson in the joke that lends itself to mediation. But that is not my import here.

Some of you may be like me, your own worst enemy. I keep repeating the same online errors repeatedly, thinking I will meet an important companion. It has been and still is an impotent effort. I ask myself why anyone would want to join me in the furnace. I may be an ardent fool for any vicious and wiley woman. I need not have someone add pain to my life, and why would I recruit another only to inject pain into their life? I may be intelligent in some ways but stupid in other ways.

 

Yes, when I discovered the proposed paramour was a grifter and cut loose from the quandary, I felt so jovial for an hour, and then I began the process over again.

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