This is probably obvious to most of you but perhaps not so with all of you.
AI Overview
Whether "one lover is enough" depends entirely on the individual and their personal needs and desires; while some people find complete fulfillment in a monogamous relationship with one partner, others may require more complex relationships with multiple partners (polyamory) to feel satisfied.
Key points to consider:
Individual needs:
Everyone has different emotional, physical, and intimacy needs, which can vary greatly from person to person.
Communication is key:
Open and honest communication with your partner is crucial to understand if your needs are being met within a monogamous relationship.
Polyamory as an option:
If you feel that one partner cannot fulfill all your needs, exploring polyamory could be a possibility, but only if all parties involved are fully informed and consenting.
I remained monogamous for forty years in my younger days; I sought variety. My one clue could be that I crave new foods, new places I have never seen, and new adventures in art, music, and science.