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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, December 1, 2024 at 10:08 AM

Hello, blog readers. I hope your day is going well.

The last few days were unremarkable, except I awoke Saturday and was convinced it was Sunday until I discovered no pro football games on the TV schedule. LOL

I jettisoned a scammer vying for me like a shark in the water. An online friend who was always going to change and come and make things better for me proved that  “A leopard doesn't change its spots.” She briefly had me re-activate "Telegram," and like flies drawn to crap, I was inundated with scammers: bloop switched off.

"Hope against hope idiom" is what my foolish hope is all about. Every time I reacquaint myself with someone who let me down, believing it will be different this time, the result is the same, and so is my feeling: disappointment. Yes, I seem "To boldly go where foolish men have gone before" countless times. It would be nothing more than amusing if it were not that it is a sad exercise in futility.

 

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