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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 months ago. December 28, 2024 at 2:11 PM

I am surprised that a crazy "do-gooder" - like a cousin who admonished me, calling me lazy and saying that I should get off my ass as a caregiver and help myself hasn't appeared at my front door to help us. Or, an altruistic "bleeding heart" hasn't rang my doorbell. No, I have tried every avenue to acquire caregiver help that I have learned about (from counselors and share groups), but I only continue with the "status quo."

I have been expressing our needs to healthcare people and even social workers in the hospital the last time I brought my wife there. The remnants of our two small retirement funds are insufficient to pay for help but disqualify us from government help.

I say, "Humans and dogs can get used to anything," so I have adapted to this depressing life. No, I haven't given up. I always have an action plan in the works, although 99% of these plans fall short.

I'm just venting today.

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