Andron

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

Have You Tried to Avoid Sex

3 months ago. December 30, 2024 at 3:42 PM

Have you ever decided not to think about or participate in intimate sex?

Is it easy? It is for a little while, but suddenly, like being caught in a snare, something or someone traps you. He or she lures you into that lust-filled ache feeling within you that was sleeping.

What if then you have no choice because you do not have a lover?

For me, endure and give up. It will pass, and I will fall back into the nothing I was lured out of.

BunnyBites(sub female){HoK} - I have tried many times. It is extremely difficult. I have given up Porn however completely. It just does not satisfy me and it sets up false expectations in my dynamic and relationships.

I went for a while not seeking sexual intimacy with my partners for a time just to better control my own sexual needs since I was worried that for a long time I was struggling with a sex addiction but I dont think I am so that is good.

Still being a sexual deviant is fun for me. LOL

3 months ago

Andron - Sex is a normal part of life and not just for procreation but for us to feel well and all is well with the world. In our culture, inherited from extreme Christianity, many neuroses manifested. The only valid reason for sexual abstinence and caution is STDs. I abided by the standard for forty years with my wife, and we were compatible and satisfied. Since 2017, when she was diagnosed with early onset dementia, I have been caught in one dilemma or another, but I have finally shed my Christian roots and brainwashing. The people of the Church abandoning my wife was the last straw. Religion is manmade. If there is God, there is nothing we can do to reach him or her.

3 months ago

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The Culture that has been here all the time

Have You Tried to Avoid Sex

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