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Drinfear's Ravings

The ravings of the lunatic known here as Drinfear.. Various antics, advice and incidents that have happened over My 30 years living the Lifestyle..
9 months ago. January 26, 2024 at 4:10 AM

Greetings Cage,
A quick apology. I burst onto the scene excited and was pretty much a bull in a China shop just having fun and meeting new people and don’t think I considered the electronic medium of the internet. Words and intention are often easy to misinterpret when written or messaged. Plus I was acting the way I do with people I’m more familiar with and that probably came off a tad domineering? That was not my intention. It has been brought to My attention that I was a bit much and stepped on a few toes, which is not the Man I am, nor was raised to be.

To those here who I have offended, I apologize from My heart. I wasn’t trying to be overly familiar, or insult, and truly no disrespect was intended. I am new to the site, and can say honestly, I was just excited to be here with likeminded people. Etiquette here is completely unlike any other lifestyle site or app I have ever been on. I realize My generic terms of endearment, for lack of a better term, was merely an attempt at speaking easy, nothing more, as this is how I’ve interacted with others before.

This is the 'new guy' doing My best to reach out, and make the things I have done to ruffle feathers right from this point forward. I cannot promise I won’t step on toes but please let me know. I hope in the future, I might have the good fortune of meeting and speaking properly, thus earning a proper second impression to recover from my first impression that I’ve made. Give me a shot and I am absolutely sure you will see a totally different person, should that time come..

 

Dom

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Not all men know how to apologize and mean it. Takes courage, to humble one's self. I applaud you, Mr. Dom
Thank You
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I have never had an issue apologizing if I was in the wrong, I do it all the time with Natalie, and would not feel true to Myself if I did not do such things when they were deserved.. Thank YOU for your kind words, flitter..
9 months ago
Amor Animus​(dom male) - You and I have had no interactions before so hope you don’t mind the comment. It’s takes a man to admit fault, to realize mistakes he’s made and how those mistakes, intended or not, have affected other people. I wasn’t prefect when I joined either. There’s a lot to learn. Just remember, kindness and respect go a long way. Your apology shows you’re willing to take feedback, learn, reassess; that shows character in my book.
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I believe I commented on one of Your blogs, friend, but You are correct, this is the first actual interaction. I appreciate the comments, and have always been this way..
9 months ago
Sweet Minx​(sub female){NotLooking} - Hey. I'm happy to start a fresh new page. It wasnt long ago that I was new here too and it can be a tight knit group. Everyone protects and defends each other like a family. It makes you want to be a part of it.
The apology wasn't neccesary but it's very impactful and appreciated. Hope to debate with you in the future. :)
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - The core groups, I am slowly learning, are as tight knit as the ones I was introduced to and became part of way back on collarme, but there, I acted the way I usually do, I'd sit and watch the chat rooms.. See who knew what they were talking about on both sides of the coin.. Read the forums, to get a better grasp of who was who, all of this without much interaction beyond the occasional hello.. When I got here, it WAS like I had come Home to that former time, and did start running My mouth without the proper perspective..
I, too, look forward to these future debates, minx..
9 months ago
lambsone - I haven't been offended by anything you've said that I actually read. Glad you are excited to be here.
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I am very happy to meet someone I didn't, or didn't almost alienate with My behavior! It's nice to meet you, by the way.
9 months ago
Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female){I Guess } - I appreciate and respect your apology. People who have been here for years have fought tooth and nail to establish a culture of respect, safety, and shared knowledge. We protect that as fiercely as we can in this environment.

No mistake is a forever mistake so long as you learn from it and adapt.
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I LIKE that, no mistake is a forever mistake.. I may use that in the future.. But you understand culture of respect, safety and shared knowledge.. I will watch and learn a bit more before I try once more to move into the flowing river that is this site..
9 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - I will say that was well done and properly conveyed. As those before said , being new and having to reel oneself in, apologizing and humbling shows character. Again well done
9 months ago
Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - Thanks for reaching out, Boss, and I thank You for the compliment.. I have never had an issue apologizing when I am in the wrong, and I refuse to accept less from Myself.
9 months ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - We've never conversed. I do commend you for your public "apology" . Like many above say "no mistake is a last mistake. As long as you learn."

You do remind me of a past member, and I do hope you make it passed the "pitch forks" that this site can do! Wishing you the best ☺️
9 months ago

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