DarkNisha{Jackdaws}

Random musings of a Bee

Words are an embuggerance

9 months ago. February 9, 2024 at 8:33 PM

Do you ever find that words just don't help when you're trying to say something that deeply affects you? The loading screen starts up in your eyes and you have to wait for the right word. Yeah, I just start gesticulating wildly and making random noises. Were words just created to make things more difficult?

You know what's even worse? You go on on an entirely different tangent and fifty years later you finally get back on to the topic you had started off with.

Emotions and words are so entwined that you can't figure out often how to say what you want to say and you're left confused. It can make the situation worse and then you're lost.

Breathe. It's fine, just wave your arms about and make random noises.

jackdaws - You are always far more eloquent than you give yourself credit for darkling!

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - Thank you :]

9 months ago

Spanks hard(dom male){Looking } - You are right sometimes it difficult to choose words to describe your feelings or make a point it has been said sticks and stones might break my bones but words will never harm me. That is wrong words are like bullets once they are fired from the weapon that bullet can not be used until it is melted down and reshaped words can not be retracted either which leaves emotional scars

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - I've been at the receiving end of those words and have used words that I wished I had never said because I can see the hurt in someone's face that I care deeply about.

I wish we could give ourselves a few moments to be able to think about what we should say, or maybe have an internal edit feature.

9 months ago

Innocent Me(sub female){Protected} - I just get the loading screen look on my face and stare silently while my brains tries to figure out what to say next...usually it ends with the other person asking if I'm okay and I reply with 'I dunno' while my brain races through all the possibilities of what I could say and none of them are enough so I just give up. 0_o

My brain is constantly racing, pretty exhausting at times.

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - This, this, all of this! They then look at me when the random noises start happening -_-

9 months ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - Graawww-stomp-crunch-smash!! When all else fails just become a dinosaur and growl at them🦖they’ll soon be trying much harder to understand you better and calm you down 🤣☺️

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - I like this plan very much! <3

9 months ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - Ironically I do vaguely recall reading a blog a long time ago whereby a little was saying something very similar to this. She had great difficulty in expressing herself and her emotions, they eventually made a color chart for her to use. She’d start naming colors or pointing, and the colors would be associated with words and feelings, and help her figure out how to communicate better and for others to understand her more❤️. That may be worth a look as well☺️.

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - That'd be so useful. It's actually sets my anxiety off sometimes

9 months ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - I’ll try to finds out more about it for you 🤗❤️

9 months ago

DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - Thank you darling! <3

9 months ago

Jack in the box -
Or flop like a fish 😏

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Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - We shall leave the flopping to you 🤣🤭it’s much more fearsome to roar and stomp chomp those who do not understand us🐾

9 months ago

Jack in the box - 😄😘

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DarkNisha{Jackdaws} - I can do that. I have special training :]

9 months ago

Jack in the box -
Lol, that would be fun to watch 😁

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