Disclaimer: This is my opinion and view of the Gorean Lifestyle within the BDSM world. Where the majority of Gorean Lifestylers adhere to a Code of Ethics based on much of the Honor Codes of the Warrior Caste. Many Goreans I have encountered and had the chance to associate and talk with over my many years in the lifestyle have all stated they live their lives and uphold their dynamics to these codes and values. However the lack of honesty about truly living them is laughable. The fact that there seems to be an unwritten rule in the Gorean community that states you have to live by these core values. Yet no where in the Gorean novels does it state every Gorean man lives by these codes. This knowledge is paramount in revealing how one defines Gor in the beautiful world of kink. It shows how the books have been taken and adapted to fit a consensual Master/slave dynamic and relationship.
Honor in Gor is not a universal concept.
The world of Gor popularized by John Norman's series of novels, captivates many with its complex social structures, unique customs, and the often idealized notions of honor among its inhabitants. As is true in many societies, the reality within Gor’s communities transcends the romanticized ideals, revealing a more nuanced landscape where not all individuals adhere to the code of honor that many would associate with Gorean culture.
The Gorean lifestyle revolves around a perceived notion of honor strongly tied to ones status and conduct. True honor is often reserved for a specific subset of the population who embodies the chivalrous traits adopted in the writings bravery, loyalty, and integrity. These individuals aspire to uphold honor codes that dictate their actions and relationships. Yet contrary to this ideal, a significant number of inhabitants fail to align with these principles. Giving rise to a culture rife with deceit and betrayal.
Many individuals within Gor engage in practices that contrast sharply with the concept of honor. Thievery and deception occasionally flourish revealing the darker side of human nature. For every noble warrior or steadfast freewoman, there exists a cunning thief or duplicitous merchant aiming to exploit others for personal gain. This duality complicates the Gorean social fabric and challenges the simplistic notion of a universally honorable society. It is important to recognize that not all who claim to be Gorean adhere to the noble virtues. Thus the concept of honor is both exalted and undermined within various factions.
Fueling these contrasts is the intense passion that characterizes the Gorean people. Discussions about honor, ethics, and morality can quickly devolve into fiery debates, as the residents of Gor are notorious for their strong opinions. They don't shy away from conflict. In fact they often embrace it as part of their social discourse. Arguments may arise over interpretations of honor codes, the legitimacy of a persons status, or even the ethical implications of a particular action. This fervent engagement reflects a deeply held belief that every individual has a stake in defining what honor means to them. Sometimes leading to heated exchanges that can challenge friendships and alliances.
The varying interpretations of honor and ethics among different groups in Gor contribute to this atmosphere of debate and conflict. Different cities and cultures within Gor often maintain distinct traditions and codes of conduct. Leading to disagreements over what acceptable behavior truly entails. The complexity of these interactions illustrates that the concept of honor is not only subjective but also influenced by geographical, cultural, and social contexts.
The Gorean community embodies a diverse tapestry of ideals and behaviors. While honor remains a central theme among a select group of individuals, many inhabitants navigate a world where deceit and conflict are commonplace. Passionate debates underscore the intensity of these perspectives, illuminating the notion that honor (like many aspects of life) is multifaceted. Understanding this complexity invites deeper appreciation for the richness of the Gorean lifestyle, where honor is not merely a principle but a subject of relentless exploration and contention.