Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
When it comes to the age old question of whether sex is better in the bath or the shower, I find myself leaning towards a rather unexpected answer, neither. However, if the choice is between the two, I’d definitely pick sex in the bath. Ideally in a luxurious jacuzzi tub or a spacious garden bath.
I have to admit, the idea of sex in the shower seems enticing at first glance. There’s something about the cascading water, the steam, and the notion of intimacy in a confined space that intrigues many. But in my experience, it often feels more like a logistical nightmare than a pleasurable escape. For starters, let’s talk about the space. Showers tend to be cramped, making it difficult to move around freely. With slippery surfaces and water everywhere, the practicalities of finding a comfortable position become more challenging than enticing. Plus, I have a hard time focusing on pleasure when I’m worried about staying upright or managing the water flow.
On the other hand, a bath, especially one that’s spacious and inviting, offers a much more appealing atmosphere. A warm jacuzzi tub filled with bubbles, scented candles flickering nearby, and soothing music playing in the background. This setting promotes relaxation, enhancing the overall experience of intimacy. In a bath, there’s room to stretch out, explore, and savor the sensations, which is crucial for me. I find that it allows more elements that contribute to pleasure, from touch to warmth. Just not room for rough primal sex.
However, the bottom line remains the same. I still struggle to achieve orgasm during these types of encounters. The stimulation I enjoy typically requires a different environment where I can fully engage all my senses, unencumbered by the constraints of water. The slick surfaces, combined with the focus needed to maintain balance in a shower or the constant concern about water temperature and flow in a bath, detract from my ability to fully immerse myself in the moment.
Water can sometimes be a fickle friend when it comes to sexual energy. It can wash away sensations or make it hard to generate the friction necessary for climax. I’m all about enhancing my sexual experiences, and finding a way to incorporate the elements that truly work for me is essential. In my ideal scenario, I prefer settings where I can control the atmosphere, dim lighting, comfortable bedding, and the right temperature. Factors that simply can’t be matched in a bath or shower.
While the romanticized idea of shower or bath sex can be appealing, my personal preference leans toward the bath, if I must choose one. However, I acknowledge that both options come with limitations that can ruin my experience. For me, achieving sexual pleasure is complex, and despite my fondness for a warm soak, I often find that my true pleasure lies in environments that allow complete freedom and sensory engagement.
