This evening was such a gift. I had the joy of attending a Gorean Virtual munch, and it filled me in a way I didn’t even realize I was needing. Spaces like this are so precious for our community, safe places to gather, connect, and share in the beauty of what it means to live this way of life.
It warmed me to see just how many Goreans are out there, each practicing Gor in their own unique way, some purely as lifestyle, some interwoven with Leather traditions, and many shaping it into something that fits within their homes and hearts. It reminded me that there truly isn’t only one way to be Gorean. The diversity was beautiful, and the people themselves were so lovely. For the first time in a long while, it felt like home again.
One moment in particular touched me deeply. I wish I could recall which Master said it, but their words have stayed with me: "you can be Gorean the way you desire to be Gorean. What happens within your house, between you and your partner, if it is consensual, it is valid, whole, and acceptable. The only time it becomes wrong is when someone tries to push their way of living onto others without consent."
Hearing those words made my heart swell, because it is exactly how I see the world. No one else can define me but me. There is no one “right” way to live a power exchange dynamic so long as it is chosen, desired, and consented to by those within it. That truth gives me peace and strength in my service, and it renews my eagerness to continue walking this path with devotion.
I find myself so excited now for the months ahead. I want these munches to become part of my rhythm, part of my growth, and part of the life we are building. To be in a space where Goreans can speak maturely, share openly, and support one another without ridicule or cruelty, it is such a blessing.
Not all of Gor is toxic. Not all of Gor is delusional. There are kind, thoughtful, genuine people living this life with honor and depth. And to be among them this evening… it reminded me why I love this path so dearly.