Many people out there often misunderstand me. I have been a villain in some people's stories. I have been a saint in others. The funny thing is I am both I suppose. I am a reflection, a shiny mirror of your own behavior shining back at you.
I have always been this way. I easily get along with anyone no matter what they believe in, where they come from or their own political standings. I can fit in anywhere and just have pleasant conversation and enjoy my time meeting new people.
I always approach someone for the first time with kindness. I do not know them so I give them the benefit of the doubt to be a good person. It has taken me a long time to learn people are human and make mistakes. Since I was of the mindset if you're an adult you know right from wrong, but my master Damon is the one who has convinced me to give people second chances.
I TRY!!!
Still there are reasons why I am a villain in peoples stories. Those reasons are I will treat you precisely the way you treat me. If you are going to pop off and cross a boundary that I have put into place. I am going to remind you once politely and then clap back after that. Most often I try to redirect you.
Which is what I did yesterday to someone and now I was called RUDE!!!!
The other reasons I become a villain in someone else's story is just because they are being a total asshole and well you get exactly the behavior right back at you becuase submissive or not I am not a door mat and I will be treated respectfully.
PERIOD!!!
The majority of people I encounter I have noticed do not have manners and have never been raised to set boundaries or follow boundaries. In fact I only recently learned of them about four years ago when i started placing boundaries in my life. It was hard at first to do so but once I got the hang of doing so it was much easier.
Enforcing boundaries were hard as well. Sometimes I wonder if I am being to harsh on someone when they violate a boundary but then I have to remind myself if I am lenient and do not keep my word on what will happen when you cross a boundary then I have shown that person they can walk all over me, and yeah....NO....again I am not your doormat and I will not be treated like one.
I am a Gemini, born in May and I have always been a mirror. I give you what you put out there. If you are going to put out into the world that you are a jerk well I am going to remind you that you are one. If you continue to break a boundary I will keep my word and excommunicate you from my life.
I am rude because I told you when you interact with me, it was strictly platonic conversation only. You chose to remind me of how horny you are. I thus redirected you like a dumb fucking toddler to go tell the person you claim you are in love with. If that makes me rude so fucking be it. It will be the inspiration of my new art piece today.
You also don't get to be a dick to me after you have shared some information and I chose to throw that back into your face. I may be rude sometimes when I tell you to stay in your fucking lane, but at least I am not cheating on my wife simply because I cannot tell her I am unhappy and either divorce her or open the marriage.
I am also not Willy Wonka, I am not going to sugar coat anything for you. Cheating on your spouse/partner is NOT a fucking Kink...its VIOLATION OF CONSENT!!!
I might be rude becuase I didn't care about your arousal, but at least I am not lacking integrity and self respect.
So how about grow the fuck up and stop violating peoples boundaries, that way when you meet someone like me, who reflects your behavior, you wont sit there and cry over being treated the way you treat others.
You were Disrespectful, not the other way around!!!
