I do not recall what group it was posted in but a woman had asked in a submissive forum if as a submissive do you feel more submissive when your dominant does something, says something, touches you etc. They asked does that make you feel more submissive, needy, aroused, etc.
Honestly I enjoyed the entire question. That was just my summary of it but it went into more detail and it made me smile. Mostly because everything she was saying in her writing I was simply nodding and smiling and agreeing in my mind to it all.
So then I scrolled down to the comments. No point in me writing something if someone had already said it. However I was astonished. Every comment said No. The majority of women said they are submissive by nature so nothing makes them feel more than what they already are. Now I understand everyone is different, but still...What?
His footsteps on the wood floor.
The clearing of his throat.
The way he looks at me.
The scent of his cologne.
The way he grabs my hips and pulls me into him.
The way he grips my wrists.
The way he bites me.
His voice when he calls me a good girl.
ALL THE REST!!!
I do NOT understand how this does not make a submissive feel anything at all. How can it not? The very thought of the small list of things they do to me causes my heart to race with mere thoughts upon the topic. So I do not understand and cannot wrap my mind around a submissive saying nothing makes them feel anything becuase they are naturally a submissive. Where is the fire at in your belly? I am a naturally born submissive just as all the rest are. It is not a role I step into like I am acting out a scene.
Sometimes I feel more submissive. Sometimes I feel more eager to serve. Sometimes I am enthusiastic to please them. Sometimes I needy bitch in heat. Sometimes I am so overrun with my desire and slave needs that I am writhing and begging to be used. My masters can look at me a certain way and all I think about is how eager I need to service their pleasure and climb them like a damn mountain.
The fire in my slave belly burns so damn brightly and yes they keep relighting it when they do little things that to them are nothing but to me is everything. I encourage it as well. I inform them how much I love it because I want more of it. I need more of it. I have to have it. Just my master standing in front of me and being able to look up at him and see how broad his shoulders are.....makes me want to kneel right now,
I am not trying to bash on anyone that is not what this writing is about. I know everyone has their own experiences, their own journey, their own stories etc. I am just baffled. Are there really people out here serving a dominant and not feeling alive and free from it? Is being a submissive not liberating for you? For me I understand I can do all the adulting. I can do all the things needed to survive if I had to but damn it I love not having to. I love the control stripped from me and taken care of for me.
I get butterflies when they tell me No.
I feel my belly twist in yearning when they enforce my rules, structure, routines.
FUCK, make me crawl with that lustful look in your eyes.
Tear my panties off with your teeth as you call me your good girl.
Let me be your object, I only ache to serve you.
As much as I know that some submissive are out there serving without feeling these things. I do not think I could ever enter and agree to a dynamic where I do not feel these things. For me it would be robotic servitude and damn it that is not what I want.
Burn me with your dominance!!!
